New Yorkers Are Willing to Go the Distance for Love

Dating in New York isn’t always easy. Between busy schedules, long work hours, and living far apart, many singles are finding love that doesn’t live just down the street. A national study shows that long distance dating is becoming more common, and New Yorkers are right in the middle of it.

Long Distance Love Is More Common Than Ever

A recent survey from Tawkify asked 1,000 single Americans about their dating habits. The results show that many people are willing to travel, relocate, and invest time and money for the right relationship.

Many Singles Would Move for the Right Person

According to the study, Almost 85 percent of singles say they would relocate for the right partner. Whether it means leaving New York City, moving upstate, or crossing state lines, most people say love is worth the move if the relationship feels right.

Travel Is a Big Part of Long Distance Dating

The survey found that 23 percent of singles take more than 10 trips a year just to see their partner. For New Yorkers, that can mean flights, tolls, gas, and hotel stays adding up fast.

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Dating From Afar Can Get Expensive

One third of singles say they spend between $150 and $300 per trip to visit a partner. Some say they spend more than $600 for a single visit. Between airfare, meals, and time off work, long distance dating can become a real financial commitment.

Patience Is Still Part of the Plan

Nearly half say they would stay in a long distance relationship for a year or more before needing to live closer. That kind of patience matters in a state where jobs, leases, and family ties can make quick moves difficult.

Effort Matters More Than Distance

More than half of singles say “not enough effort” is their top dealbreaker. Distance alone isn’t the problem. A lack of communication, planning, or follow through is. For New Yorkers with packed calendars, showing effort often matters more than how far away someone lives.