I know this isn’t going to make me popular with Kardashian lovers, but have you ever noticed that whenever there’s trouble in the girl’s personal lives, it’s never their fault- it’s always the fault of the guy they’re with and how magically all sorts of secrets are revealed at just the right time?

Take it for what it’s worth, but amazingly, a third woman has stepped forward to say she had an affair with Lamar Odom.

Twenty-nine-year-old graduate student Sandy Schultz told Star magazine that she met Lamar in 2003 at a nightclub in West Hollywood, way before he even knew Khloe and according to her, they “dated solidly” for two years, “and then on and off for seven years after that.”

“I was very much in love with him,” Schultz says. “My nickname for him was ‘Lam Lam,’ and to hear Khloe calling him that now is like a dagger through my heart.”

In 2006, after Lamar didn’t propose, Sandy packed up and moved out of the country and got engaged to another man, but she came back a year later and picked things up with Lamar right where they’d left off. By 2009 she broke things off with her fiancé to be with Lamar, but that didn’t last either. That August, Schultz and her sister were guests of Lamar’s to a party thrown by L.A. Laker Ron Artest, which is where Lamar met Khloe.  One month later they were married.

It’s been two years since Lamar and Khloe met and now Sandy she hooked up with Lamar in San Francisco when he was in town for a game, spending two steamy nights two nights together in his hotel room.  But when the weekend was over, Lamar left her $800 and they never spoke again.