Are We Raising Pets Like Kids Now? New York Says Yes

If you live in New York, you’ve probably noticed this lately. Dogs sitting at outdoor cafés. Pets riding along on errands. Friends talking about their animals like they’re actual members of the family.

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A new report from Rover shows that most pet parents say their animals play a huge role in their happiness, but the way we define that relationship is changing, especially across generations.

Pets Aren’t Just Pets Anymore in New York

Younger generations like Gen Z and millennials are much more likely to see their pets as children, while older generations think of them more as best friends. And if you’ve ever called yourself a “dog mom” or changed your plans to get home to your pet… you already get it.

More New Yorkers Are Choosing Pets Before Kids

About half of Gen Z and millennials say having a pet feels like a trial run for having a child. And many of them are delaying kids and choosing pets instead. Pets offer companionship, routine, and a sense of family, without the same financial pressure that comes with raising children right now.

They’re Going Everywhere With Us

Millennials are more likely to bring their pets along, whether that’s running errands, heading out for the day, or even bringing them to work when they can. And once that becomes part of your routine, it’s hard to stop it altogether.

Pets Are Becoming a Dealbreaker in Relationships

Nearly two-thirds of pet parents say they won’t date someone who doesn’t like pets. For some, it’s not just a preference… it’s a non-negotiable. Because at that point, your pet isn’t just part of your life… they are your life.

This Isn’t Just a Trend… It’s a Real Shift

Across New York, the way people see their pets is changing. For some, they’ll always be pets. But for more and more people? They’re family. And if you’re reading this with your dog at your feet or your cat curled up next to you… you already know exactly what that means.