More New Yorkers Are Forming Relationships With AI

A new study suggests that more people are turning to artificial intelligence for companionship, and experts say it could be changing how some people view dating and relationships.

Researchers at Vantage Point Counseling surveyed more than 1,000 adults across the United States.They found that about 28% said they had experienced a romantic or intimate relationship with AI, while nearly 54% said they have some kind of relationship with an AI system.

Why AI Relationships Appeal to Some People

One reason AI relationships are growing is because it can feel easier than dating real people. An AI companion does not reject you, stop texting back, criticize you, or end the relationship.

It is available whenever you want to talk and can provide comfort, attention, and conversation. For some New Yorkers tired of dating apps, bad dates, or relationship stress, that can be appealing.

Real Relationships Come With Challenges

While AI can offer companionship, experts say real relationships teach important life lessons. Dating often includes awkward first dates, disagreements, misunderstandings, and sometimes heartbreak.

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While those experiences can be difficult, they also help people learn communication skills, patience, and how to handle rejection. Counselors say those experiences are an important part of emotional growth.

Could AI Make Real Dating Feel Harder?

Experts worry that people who spend a lot of time in AI relationships may start comparing real people to AI companions. The problem is that real people have their own opinions, schedules, feelings, and needs.

AI systems are designed to be helpful and responsive, which can make human relationships seem more frustrating by comparison. Some experts believe that could make real dating feel harder than it actually is.

Couples Are Facing New Questions

The study also found that some people in committed relationships are using AI for emotional or romantic interactions. That is leading to new conversations about trust and boundaries. Some couples may not see a problem with AI companionship, while others may feel it crosses a line..

For New Yorkers looking for love, experts say AI may offer convenience, but real relationships still provide something technology cannot fully replace: a genuine connection with another person.