Today (10/19) is "Sweetest Day." It's the 3rd Saturday in Hawktober.  It's either another made up Hallmark holiday or it's a day of "loving" but not just loving but "great loving."  I'm happy for a hug....but I digress.  So here's my advice for successful love or relationship.

5) Never keep secrets from each other.....unless it's Christmas presents.

4) Find a woman that's smarter than you.....but she doesn't know it

3) They think they are in control...but you really are.

2) Don't put them on a pedestal because they can only look down on you.

1) Most yourself first.  That's sounds creepier than I meant it.

So enjoy Sweetest Day and remember my advice is worth what you paid for it